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Farm Boys


26 Apr

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We are currently staying at my aunt’s house on her vineyard in Finniss in South Australia. We spent a couple of nights staying with my parents on the way over, and will stay with them again on the way home. We thought that the boys would have a ball at the farm, with all the wide open space, the animals and the grapes. The harvesting was done just a week ago, and there are still a few bunches of grapes on the vines. Toby has stuffed himself with red and white grapes, Nathan adores the chickens, sheep and the two beautiful maremma dogs that they have on the property.

Today we did a few jobs around the farm, and Nathan thought it was all fantastic, and is enjoying being a farm boy. He fixed irrigation pipes with Shirley this morning, riding around on the quad bike with her looking for leaks. Then he helped move some sheep and the final job of the day was replacing some boards on the verandah. This involved measuring, sawing, hammering and using nails. He was in heaven.

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16 months old


21 Apr

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Toby is making more recognisable word sounds, though still very little is understandable. He says words like Mummy, Daddy, jump, duck and car. He is very strong willed, knowing exactly what he wants and let’s us all know if he isn’t getting it. He is pretty good, though, at communicating with us to let us know what it is that he wants, even if he isn’t very verbal yet. He also tries very hard to do things like putting socks and shoes on, not wanting us to help even though he isn’t able to do it himself yet.

There are more fights between Nathan and Toby these days, with both kids wanting the same things at the same time. Toby has started biting and hitting, all of us but Nathan cops the worst bites because he can’t recognize when it is about to happen and therefore cannot try to avoid the bite like Andrew and I can. Nathan, in return has started pushing and even biting when he gets angry with Toby. Mostly we have a calm house, but there are moments…..

All in all, Toby is at a really delightful age, and we have a lot of fun with him.

Healesville Sanctuary


19 Apr

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Last weekend we went to Healesville Sanctuary. The weather was lovely and sunny though it was chilly in the shade, the area of the sanctuary was beautiful and bushy, the animals were great and we had a really nice day.

We saw emus being fed, a flight show, lots of native animals and the super hero Crapman. Yes, the sanctuary was really pushing for people to use recycled toilet paper and had their own green masked super hero in a red cape with a picture of a toilet roll on it.

One of the highlights for the kids was a big inflated mat that they could jump around on and pretend to be kangaroos (it was near the kangaroo enclosure). Nathan bounced his way around the mat and Toby tried but often ended up lying on the mat and being bounced by all the other kids. He would then push himself off and start again.

The kids had fun and it was a lovely day out. We didn’t quite see everything because Nathan got a bit tired and cranky, so another trip is a must.

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Another sewing project (or two) completed…


13 Apr

…but this time it is for Toby. Another Ottobre pattern, from 4/2009 in size 80 cm.

Raglan sleeve top

Raglan sleeve top

Raglan sleeve top

UPDATED 16/4/2011

I whipped up another top for Toby using the lining fabric from Nathan’s guitar top as the outer fabric, and some stripey fabric that I bought online but was disappointed when I got it because I thought it would have been brighter. The two seemed to go well together so I thought there was no harm done by giving it a go. I’m really pleased with how it turned out. I also decided to put a piece of ribbon on the bottom edge.

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A rough week


04 Apr

OK, this is really just for the record sort of stuff, so if you are queasy with any mention of bodily functions or excretions, then I would advise you to click away now.

I guess it started last Wednesday, which isn’t quite a week ago. On Wednesday night we had an accident that I would prefer to forget. As much as we are careful with the kids and hot things, I guess accidents still can happen. Nathan did the unthinkable and jumped off his step (the one he stands on at the end of the kitchen bench so he can see and be involved in cooking), knocking me as I was carrying a casserole dish full of steaming hot pumpkin soup. It splashed onto my foot which was horrible enough, but poor Nathan was nearly drenched in the soup. I picked him up and rushed him to the bath, and started putting cold water onto his lower legs and feet because that was all I could see at first that was burnt, but as his screaming continued I looked elsewhere and found that over half his back and bum was also bright red. The plug went into the bath so his burnt feet would be covered with cold water, and I sat him down on a small step with his back under the tap so that the cold water could run down his back. Oh, how I wish I’d noticed his back first. After an hour under the running cold water, hoping that he wasn’t getting hypothermic (he didn’t seem to be particularly cold), I finally hauled him out and dried him off. Nathan’s feet were fine, with maybe just a touch of red on one of them. Most of the redness had gone from his back and bottom, but there were a few nasty looking patches with blistered skin.

The next day, Thursday, we visited the doctor to discuss how to look after his burns. He gave me a prescription for some ointment and told me to smear it onto non-stick absorbent patches and put over the blisters. It is easy to put one on his back and bandage it in place, but I’m finding that keeping a patch on his bum where there is so much movement is really hard!

Also on Thursday we went to our regular playgroup and one of the children was sick with gastro. He had had diarhoea but the mother brought him because he had seemed fine for 48 hours. I didn’t even know he had been sick when I saw him sharing popcorn from a big bowl with my two kids and other kids as well. And then he had a bout of diarhoea at playgroup with poo running down his legs. All I could hope was that I didn’t end up with two sick kids.

Friday night, about 36 hours after playgroup, we were at Chadstone shopping centre when Nathan did a projectile vomit or two or three inside a shop! How revolting! We took him home as soon as we could, and was sick several more times during the night. We stayed home all Saturday, not wanting to repeat the experience of a child vomiting in a public area, but Nathan seemed to be ok.

Perhaps I jinxed us when I suggested to Andrew on Saturday night that if it took 36 hours for Nathan to come down with some sort of gastro illness after playgroup, then Toby might get sick Sunday morning since it was 36 hours after Nathan was sick. It was sort of fortuitous that our plans for Sunday had been cancelled because Toby had diarrhoea on Sunday morning and we weren’t keen to go out if there was the chance that we’d have to deal with diarrhea or vomiting.

So now we are up to Monday and have barely set foot out of the house in three days. I am thankful that Toby wasn’t burnt with the hot soup. He so easily could have been because he was also in the kitchen area when I dropped the bowl. I’m also thankful that though I have had two sick kids, they don’t seem to have been sick at the same time. I just hope that Toby is better soon because, quite frankly, I’m over all the cleaning associated with poo and vomit.

Scissor craziness


24 Mar

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This is the end result of a 3 year old and 1 year old enjoying themselves without Mummy’s supervision. The kids were having fun and I didn’t think much harm could happen in the bedroom. I finally decided to see what was keeping them so amused and happy (lots of giggling coming out of the room) and found Nathan cutting our relatively expensive queen size Sheridan sheet with his scissors that I had forgotten to put away after he was using them this morning. Apparently Toby found them on the little play table in the kitchen and took them into the bedroom. That’s Nathan’s story, anyway.

15 months old


21 Mar

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Toby is just getting better and better at things. His communication is getting better, with more recognizable sounds coming out of his mouth now. He tries to say phrases that we say a lot too, like “up in the air I fly” and “there you are”. He is also getting more and more definite about what he wants, and if he doesn’t get it then he certainly let’s us know about it! And he is getting better at running, though it is the typical ungainly looking toddler gait. He just wants to be able to keep up with his brother.

Toby has a real love of books, though he doesn’t often sit through an entire book before he goes off to find another one for us to read. And he is going really well with EC now. He seems to have got the hang of it and is now dry most of the time.

Puffing Billy


20 Mar

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We went took the kids in Puffing Billy today. We took the train from Belgrave Station to Lakeside where we had a picnic lunch and a walk around the lake before getting the train back to Belgrave.

Nathan had so much fun that he is currently obsessed with steam trains and reliving the train rides of today. In particular, he talks a lot about how the train stopped on the way up due to a lack if steam (a recent change of coal supply is causing a few issues for the trains). It took quite a long time to build up the stream and get the train going again. Toby just wanted to wriggle and explore, which made it very difficult when the train was crowded. An hour trying to contain a restless toddler is not a lot if fun, really.

We had perfect weather and the train went through some pretty parts of the Dandenongs.

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Toby


19 Mar

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Just another fuzzy photo from Nathan the photographer, but I think it is cute.

Separation Anxiety


13 Mar

It is a fuzzy photo, but the expression is clear. Toby has not been very happy when away from me, ever since we left for Sydney some 10 days ago. I suspect that he missed his Daddy while we were away, and so he clung to me more than normal. If I left his sight, or walked away from him, or he was playing and realised suddenly that I was not near him, he would start crying inconsolably and looking for me. Even when I picked him up, the sobbing and crying would continue for quite a while. When getting Nathan to sleep I would try to leave Toby with my friends who we were staying with, but he was so upset at not being with me that I had to find other solutions to bedtime. Not even the iPhone or iPad would console him, and they are usually do the job beautifully when he is upset.

I thought that things would return to normal when we got back home, but it is taking a lot longer than I had imagined.

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