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Homesick


04 Oct

I never, ever imagined that I would be homesick for Sydney….but I am.   There were many, many good reasons for moving to Melbourne, but that hasn’t stopped me longing for the beautiful city of Sydney and my friends there.

I miss the convenience of living in the inner city area.  So many places that I frequented were very close by, with some being just waking distance away.  I miss the wonderful Sydney Park, that had so many different things to do there.  The playground is one of the best I’ve seen anywhere, there were ducks to visit with eels and turtles to be seen in the water as well, there was a little traffic area for kids on bikes complete with traffic lights and roundabouts, and of course lots of open space.  Newtown cheap(ish) eating was just a few minutes in the car, and the ocean beaches were only 15 minutes of driving away.  Eh, I even miss the little 1 bedroom flat that was so light and bright where we saw aeroplanes and sunsets through the foliage of the gum trees, even though we had well and truly outgrown it.

I miss my wonderful Monday group of parents (mostly mums but one dad) and kids, who met up at Sydney Park that has a fantastic playground.  My Friday group was also great, but in a different way.  The Monday group all had a similar approach to parenting, but my Friday group was made up of women who all have similar aged children, having all been loosely associated with a Mother’s group when our first kids were babies.  We certainly had different approaches to parenting, but were all lovely people.  And then there is Mel and her daughter, Sarah.  I met Mel when Nathan was just a few weeks old.   Sarah is just 5 days younger than Nathan.  We became friends pretty quickly, and have met up on a regular basis over the last 2.5 years.  Mel is also a member of the Friday group, but we would generally meet up on a Thursday as well…just Mel, me and the two kids.

Nathan has a little chant that he yells at top volume when he is tired and when he wants to wake a sleeping Toby when in the car….the volume is almost unbearable in the confined space of the car.  He yells “Mummy, Daddy, Nathan, Toby, Sarah, Mel” over, and over, and over again.  As far as Nathan is concerned, these are the people he loves most in the world, because these are the people he has spent the most time with and knows best.

This chant nearly brings me undone every time.  Nathan loves both Mel and Sarah, and so do I, and it brings me to tears to think about how much we both miss them.  It’s not just missing them for the things we did together, but also the knowledge that we will miss the eventuation or not of their hopes and dreams.  I won’t be there to celebrate moving into their new house.  I won’t be there when (hopefully when) Mel is pregnant again.  We won’t share in the growing up of our little families other than from afar.  All these thoughts bring me to tears.

I can’t say that I have been particularly excited about this move to Melbourne.  Intellectually I can appreciate so many great reasons for relocating, but emotionally it has been so much harder than I thought it would be. Yes, it has only been a week so far.  Yes, I do have some friends here already though they are not just around the corner and I find traveling hard and tiring with two kids.  And yes, I will probably make more friends with kids.  If anyone else tells me not to worry, that I’ll make more friends through the kids, I think I will burst from wanting to say that I have friends and they can’t simply and easily be replaced.  Great friendships are born from years of shared experiences, and there will never be a way to replace those who have been with me through my first years of parenting.

I am sure that the fact that I dislike the rental we are currently staying in doesn’t help with the homesickness at all.  The stained carpets, the cheap and nasty items within the house (it’s furnished) that make cooking and cleaning difficult.  The vacuum cleaner that barely sucks, the washing machine that leaves fluff on all the clothes, the bedrooms with that musty old house smell, the shower that barely fits a single body inside (to wash my hair I have to stand on the diagonal so that my elbows fit in), and the horrible beds.  At least it’s all temporary.  There are good things too….a heated roof over our heads, the big back yard and being less than 3 km from Andrew’s workplace.

I think this move to Melbourne is going to be a good thing for us as a family…..but right now it just doesn’t feel much like it.

And now, just because Nathan insisted that I also put this photo into my blog……

Sold!


31 Aug

Friday (20/8): meet first of 3 real estate agents to talk about selling our flat
Saturday (21/8): meet more estate agents
Monday (23/8): Andrew got his letter of offer for the job in Melbourne
Tuesday (24/8): sign with our chosen real estate agent
Wednesday (25/8): clean and tidy like crazy
Thursday (26/8): clean all morning, have a potential buyer through the flat at 1 pm.
Friday (27/8): 10:30 am first offer which was more than acceptable to us, midday the final offer which was a little more.

I never thought it would be so easy to sell our flat!

Channel-billed Cuckoo


15 Dec

We have had a couple of visits from this interesting bird recently. Yes, it may be ugly and noisy, but we love seeing different things in the trees outside our loungeroom window. What our bird book says (abridged) about this bird is:

A huge cuckoo, with huge bill giving more the appearance of a hornbill. This is a migratory species; breeds in Australia in spring and summer and migrates to NG, Indonesia and other northern islands for the winter. On arrival in Australia about Sep-Oct, the Channel-billed Cuckoo makes its presence obvious with loud raucous calls. The Channel-billed Cuckoo uses currawongs, magpies and crows as hosts. With the huge bill extending the body length forward, in flight this species looks from below like a flying cross; the body is well over half a metre long and the wingspan approaches one metre. Channel-billed Cuckoos feed principally on fruit, but also take insects, espeecially large insects such as locusts; they have also been reported to feed on eggs and nestlings of other birds.

Dust Storm Sunrise


23 Sep

The radiant red of a dust storm during sunrise this morning made for an amazing spectacle!  These are photos that Andrew took from inside our flat….just before Nathan and I woke up!

New Bikes


22 Nov

My (old) bicycle is 18 years old, has done tens of thousands of kilometres, the gears don’t work well and the handlebars give me shoulder cramps when I ride a long distance.  I have tried to fix many of her age-related problems and the shoulder cramp problem, but I came to the conclusion long ago that my best option would be to buy a new bike.  Then I moved to Sydney and stopped riding so much.

A few months ago Andrew’s bike was stolen from outside our cage (it was locked to our cage at the time, my bike was apparently not good enough to be stolen since it was locked by the same chain that was cut).  Since then we have talked about buying ourselves a new bike each, so last Saturday found us bicycle shopping at Woolys Wheels in Paddington.  We took a bicycle for a test ride (road bike with flat handlebars) and we both liked it, so we were fitted out for new bikes, a bike rack that goes on the tow bar of the car, and a baby seat.  Today we picked up the bikes, got a helmet for Nathan, and lashed out on bicycle shoes and cleat pedals because I wanted to try them instead of getting toe clips (I can’t possibly ride without something like that these days, it feels like something is missing if I don’t have my feet attached to the pedals). The handy thing about the pedals is that they are normal pedals on one side and cleats on the other, so you don’t need to wear the special bicycle shoes to ride the bike.

Anyway, I’m very excited to have a bicycle that is quite light, and a baby seat so that Nathan and I can pop to the park or the shops without having to get out the car.  My old bicycle is going to be donated to some place that does up old bikes for a good cause.  I’ll be sad to see the end of Ten Tonne Tessy because I’ve had a lot of fun on her even though I also suffered through terribly painful shoulders as a result of bicycle touring on her.  I’m going to have to come up with a nickname for my new bike….I don’t have any ideas yet, but maybe something will become obvious as I get to know her better.  🙂

Aerobed


01 Feb

Our visitors used to sleep on our sofa bed in the loungeroom. We had a couple of problems with this: 1) neither Andrew or I really liked the sofas, we were constantly adjusting the cushions to make them comfortable, and 2) when people used the sofa bed it meant that the loungeroom was a bedroom, and I was wondering how we’d manage to have visitors in our flat once baby arrives….particularly in the middle of the night if the lounge/kitchen area was a sleeping area for others. We were spoilt at our wedding and received a number of cash gifts, and so we decided to buy a nicer lounge suite with the money. We are very happy with the leather lounge that we got, but there is no sofa bed. So our solution was to purchase an Aerobed that would fit into the baby’s room. It’s probably easier to move the baby elsewhere when there are visitors than to have visitors sleeping in the lounge!

The Aerobed is an inflatable bed with an inbuilt pump. The bed we got rises to 2 feet off the ground, so that it’s like a real bed. We thought that would be easier for our parents to use than one that is little more than an air mattress on the floor. The bed pumps up in around 3 minutes and is really quite comfortable. Yes, it’s a bit squishy in the baby’s room with little space on either side to walk, but hopefully it will be acceptable to our guests. We recently had Aurelie and Nico stay 3 nights on it, and they said it was good.

Oh, as you can see from the photo above, the wardrobe has now been finished as well!  Andrew complained about the amount of inconvenience in getting it to this stage (something like 9 installation dates set, 4 when work was actually done, we had to do a lot of running around to make sure we would be home all of those times and rearrange the room each time they were supposed to come, and the job was finished 2 months late), and got us out of paying the final 10%!!

Clothesline


28 Jan

I never realised I could get excited by a clothes line. I worked out that I’ve lived for around 4 years without one, and now with a baby on the way I was dreading the thought of trying to get everything dry on clothes horses (I try not to use the drier unless absolutely necessary).

Technically, we’re breaking at least two bylaws by installing the clothes line (not allowed to dry clothes on the balcony, and not allowed to change the external appearance of the building without permission from the owners corporation), but we figure that not many people can see onto our balcony and therefore it was worth the risk of being told to take it down. The other thing about this clothes line is that only a couple of brackets are permenant, the actual clothes line itself can be removed when not in use. So, the photo above shows the clothes line in use (we had to go buy some pegs before we could use it!), and the one below shows the brackets in the wall with the clothesline removed. I think it’s brilliant!!

Project Baby’s Room


28 Jan

Project Baby’s Room has been (almost) completed. At least all the bits that Andrew and I can do are now finished. It’s taken a long time too! We started getting quotes for changing the study into the baby’s room in September. First we decided to put in airconditioning. We thought it would be an easy job, to put a unit on the wall and attach it to the compressor on the balcony. Wrong!! We couldn’t get quotes because noone could find the correct unit.  Andrew finally contacted the Mitsubishi distributors in Australia only to find out that the gas used in the system is no longer allowed to be imported into the country, and so they would have to try to locate a second hand unit for us. They successfully managed to find a unit, but then it took ages for them to give us a quote for installation, and every time Andrew rang to talk to them the cost (verbally given) went up, until we finally got the quote. They finally installed the unit in late November, though that was also a drama that took several days to complete. We then had to argue with the company when they sent us the bill, as we were charged for an item that they didn’t install, and we were also charged for some other things that we didn’t agree with. Andrew discussed it with the company and they ended up reducing the bill a little.

Next was the wardrobe saga. In October we got quotes for the wardrobe, and chose a company to do the work. They asked 10% to be paid when we booked the job, and another 30% when the job went to production. We didn’t have any issues with this practice. The idea was to pay 50% when the installer came to install the wardrobe, and a final 10% when it was all done to our satisfaction. The first installer never arrived because the doors were made the wrong size and had to go back to be remade. The second installation date set saw the installer turn up, so we paid our 50%, but he didn’t manage to finish the job, and he also broke the overhead cupboard so it had to go back to production. The third installation date arranged was cancelled the day before, and rescheduled for 2 days later which was their last working day before Christmas. Unfortunately they didn’t manage to make it that day either. The next installation date set in mid January saw a guy turn up, do some work for a few hours, and then tell us that he had to get some more things remade….the draws were the wrong size, as were the doors. The next installation date set was last Wednesday, and once again the wardrobe and overhead cupboard couldn’t be finished. Our next date is on Wednesday this week. So we’ve paid 90% of the quoted amount for a job that was supposed to be finished by the end of November last year, we’ve had people turn up 3 times to install it, and we still don’t have a completed wardrobe. I’m sure it will be finished…one day!

To turn the room into a proper room, Andrew and Gabe built a door frame in the Christmas break. The door frame was built to match the others in the flat, but it was taller than a standard sized door, so we’ve decided to get a lead light window to go above the door. Gabe showed us how to fix holes in plaster board, and so Andrew has been busy trying to repair all the holes created when the aircon went in. The door frame was built further into the room than the light switch, so Andrew moved the light switch and plastered over the hole of the original switch, and then we painted the entire room and door frame.

For now we’ve finished, though there are still two jobs to do. 1) get the wardrobe finished, and 2) design and get the lead light window made. It might have taken us 5 months to get this far, but I’m proud of what we’ve achieved in our 1 bedroom plus study flat.

Presenting….the baby’s room!

We just need the baby to go in it now.

Bright Orange


20 Jan

We’ve debated for weeks over what colour to put in Bugalugs’ room, and in the end we decided on orange.  It’s very bright!!  We’re planning on painting just 3 walls, the one with the window, the one with the airconditioner and the one beside the airconditioner.  The rest of the room is the nearly white colour of the rest of the flat.   We’ve only used a sample pot so far, so we need to get some more paint to finish it off.

Making a baby’s room


02 Jan

The new doorway, shelving and part of the new wardrobe

I guess it’s to be expected that a 1 bedroom flat doesn’t have a great deal of storage space. We have a wardrobe in the bedroom, what could probably be called a linen press in the hallway (though it functions as a place for the brooms, vacuum, tool box, camera bags, extra kitchen stuff that doesn’t fit in the kitchen, spare doona and a few other bits and pieces as well as our towels), and a lock-up storage cage next to our carpark. The cage is full of stuff that doesn’t fit into our flat. Some of it we use occasionally, and other bits we never use but they will be very useful when we move into a larger place. This includes lots of glassware, a lawnmower, spare chairs, radio stuff, car stuff, camping gear, boxes of tools and cables and other goodies, eskies, empty boxes for when we move, wine (it’s nice and cool and relatively dark down there), bicycles, Webber and probably loads of other stuff. So it’s already full. The linen press is full. The wardrobe is full (and I even have to share my underwear and socks drawers because we don’t have enough drawers otherwise), and we have stuff sitting around in piles that doesn’t have a place to go. Bring a baby into this, and you can see that we have no hope of coping.

In September we decided that we should just take the bull by the horns and spend some money on the study to make it a suitable space for a baby. The idea to get airconditioning installed had already been thrown around, and Andrew had started trying to get some quotes on installation of a unit that would fit onto the compressor that we have on the balcony. Sounds simple, but there were all sorts of issues including the fact that you could no longer import the units into Australia because of the type of gas they use. Anyway, a second hand unit was found and installed (nowhere near as quickly done as described, and having to deal with a whole set of issues I won’t bother boring everyone with) and now we just have the holes in the walls and ceiling to patch before we can call it all done. Poor Andrew had the job of sorting the aircon out, and he did a good job of it.

My job was to sort out the wardrobe, because we desperately needed the storage space. I had 4 companies come around to provide quotes, a couple were able to schedule this for early October, but the other companies were fully booked until mid October and so I had them come after my week long holiday in Melbourne. We decided on the quote from a company called Creative By Design, with a small wardrobe (doors from ceiling to floor), an overhead cupboard next to the wardrobe and some shelving in an alcove. Then we had to pay 10% to book them to do the job, 30% when the job was commissioned, 50% when they came to install the units, and 10% when we were happy that everything was done properly. We were to have a new wardrobe in about 5 weeks, which was sometime before the end of November. So that was all good…the designer had all our details, measurements and sketches and when she left I felt pretty happy about it all. A couple of days later we got the computer plans in the mail, but I couldn’t make sense of some of the measurements and had to try ringing the designer several times over several days until I finally got through to her. She said she’d fix them and then emailed me the new sketches, which Andrew and I had more issues with. The designer assured us that everything was fine and how we wanted it, and an installation date was set.

The first installation date came, and we got a phone call to inform us that the wardrobe doors had been made the wrong size, and another installation date would have to be set. The second installation date came, a builder arrived and he built the shelves for the wardrobe. I had been told that the wardrobe doors can’t go all the way to the ceiling, that there had to be a small bit of wood coming down from the ceiling to stop the doors from possibly contacting the ceiling if the ceiling wasn’t flat. However, the bit that they had supplied was 15 cm wide, and our top shelf on the wardrobe was only 25 cm in height, so that meant that we had a 10 cm gap through which to fill our 25 cm high top shelf. The builder also managed to break the overhead cupboard, so we were told that we needed to arrange a third installation date.

I rang the designer the following Monday and told her of the 4 issues I have (what’s been installed is just fine, it’s the bits that haven’t been done yet that were going to cause problems)…..1) the height of the bit attached to the ceiling, 2) that the overhead cupboard was made too big, 3) that the overhead cupboard was made of 4 compartments instead of the 2 that we had asked for, and 4) I wanted a slight modification to the shelving in the alcove if that was possible. Several more phone calls the following day resulted in the third installation date being set, and assurances that everything would be arranged just how we wanted it. The day before the third installation date I rang to make sure that they were coming, just to be told that they couldn’t make it and asked me if Friday (morning or afternoon) would be ok. It was their last day for the year and they said that they wanted to make sure that the wardrobe was installed by Christmas. So I booked them in for Friday afternoon (I had a hospital appointment already booked for that morning). I rang Friday morning to find out what time to expect them, just to be told that it wouldn’t be happening and that a new installation date would be arranged early next year.

We decided that to turn the study into a real room, we should install a door. So last weekend Andrew and Gabe built a doorway, and all that needs to be done now is the preparation for painting. Andrew also plans to fix the holes that were made when the airconditioning was installed, and that should happen next weekend. Then the following weekend we can paint.

So it’s been quite a drawn out project, but we’re getting there! Hopefully we’ll have a room suitable for a baby, complete with a wardrobe and door, before the baby is born.

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